POST # 484
ARCHIEnot all those who wander are lost
Tuesday, December 28, 2021
ARCHIE & THE YEAR END WRAP UP FOR 2021
Tuesday, December 21, 2021
PONDERING A LIFE
POST # 483
The year was probably 1971, but I could be off by a little bit. In any event, it was a very long time ago.
I was at dinner with a friend from my elementary school. We hadn't seen each other for a quite a few years, and so the conversation ranged far and wide. At some point we got to talking about our respective families. Both families have five children, and interestingly enough, there are four girls and one boy in each. In addition to that, the order of boy/girl was exactly the same, with the four girls arriving on the earthly scene prior to the single boy.
The conversation proceeded somewhere along these lines:
Me: "Well, there was actually another boy born before the rest of us, but he was stillborn."
Her: "Lucky you. If your brother would have survived, you probably would never have been born."
Me: "Why on earth would you think that?"
Her: "Your mom and dad would already have their boy, so there would be no urgency to have another one, and the family name could continue on to the next generation."
Me: "Oh I really don't think that that is the case, it's just the way things happened."
We chose to disagree on this topic, and soon the conversation had shifted to other things, as there were plenty of stories to tell in the short period of time that we had together.
In spite of the fact that I rejected her take on the family arrangement, after we parted ways, I couldn't help but ponder what she had said to me. The more that I thought about it, the more I started to come around to her point of view. One of the main reasons for shifting my position was recalling the numerous times over the years that my dad would tell me that it was my responsibility to carry on the family name*. I heard that on many occasions, and never gave it much thought at the time. But now, the idea that mom and dad kept having one more baby in the hopes that they would finally get another boy started to make sense in light of what my friend had mentioned.
We'll never know. For whatever reason, I never brought the subject up with either of my parents while they were still alive, so the mystery will remain. So of all the things to talk about, why would I talk about something that happened about fifty years ago when I was still a teenager?
The answer to that question is in the photo at the top of the post. You see, at my current house sit, I am for the moment, pet-less, so I have plenty of time to go for walks each day. Yesterday was a brilliantly sunny day here, and seeing as sunny days have been few and far between lately, I wanted to make sure to get out and enjoy soaking up some vitamin D, and get some exercise as well.
Not far from this place is the appropriately named, Mountain View Cemetery, the one and only cemetery in the entire city of Vancouver. It was opened in 1886. It certainly lives up to its name.
Tuesday, December 14, 2021
THE MAGIC WALL
POST # 482
For the second time in less than a week, I encountered what I would like to call a magic wall. This magic wall can be found on any BC ferry. Yesterday, on my return journey to the mainland, I boarded the ferry in Nanaimo, en route to West Vancouver. I had just completed a very short sit with two of my four legged furry friends, Eunice and Apollo.
Tuesday, December 7, 2021
OUR PRISON-LIKE WORLD
POST # 481
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“One of the saddest lessons of history is this: If we’ve been bamboozled long enough, we tend to reject any evidence of the bamboozle. We’re no longer interested in finding out the truth. The bamboozle has captured us. It’s simply too painful to acknowledge, even to ourselves, that we’ve been taken. Once you give a charlatan power over you, you almost never get it back.” ― Carl Sagan
grateful for every breath,
Paul
The Thoughtful Wanderer
Sunday, November 28, 2021
LOGAN #2
POST # 480
LOGANSunday, November 21, 2021
A HAIR RAISING WEEK
POST # 479
It was a hair raising week, and I've got the photo to prove it. Thankfully, I didn't look like this when I stood in front of the judge this past Friday, but I'll tell that tale at the end of the post.
A sudden break in the non-stop rain earlier this week, was followed by some spectacularly windy conditions. The last time that I can recall such a fierce wind was way back in 2006, if memory serves. Back then, something like ten thousand trees got knocked down in Stanley Park. That was a wild and windy night, and I spent most of it wide awake, as did all of the other liveaboards in the marina next to the park. Surveying the carnage on my bicycle the next morning was a very memorable experience.
The wind this week wasn't as severe, but it certainly packed a punch, with gusts up to 100 kmph. It seemed like a good opportunity to head out for a walk and see what I could see. The photo at the start of the post was taken as I walked across Granville Street bridge, on my way to the West End of Vancouver. Being a sailor, it was sad to see this boat being smashed against the shoreline.
Sunday, November 14, 2021
SOME OVERDUE SHADOW TIME
POST # 478
Sunday, November 7, 2021
THE GOOD OLD DAYS
POST #477
MY CURRENT VIEWThursday, October 28, 2021
FINDING COMMON GROUND
POST #476
I debated back and forth on what to talk about for my final post for October. There is no shortage of topics to cover, however nowadays we can't get through a day without the word Covid raising its ugly head.
This blog is primarily focused on house and pet sitting, so one might ask why I would want to talk about Covid today?
Here's the main reason for me. In recent times, it appears that society is now becoming divided on the lines of the jabbed versus the un-jabbed. As if there weren't enough issues already to divide us, we now have this elephant in the room. Finding common ground seems to be more and more difficult to do these days.
On a more personal note, I have had communications with friends and family regarding this issue, as I fall into the unjabbed class, unlike all of them. Or is it now the unwashed class? I'm not so sure.
Not only in my personal life, I am also seeing it in the house sitting business. Recent ads posted on the website I use to find my next sit, are now adding the caveat that the applicant must have proof of vaccination. Obviously, for those particular ads, I may as well not waste my time in applying. In addition to that, I have had a few recent cancellations once the owner finds out my status. I do find this rather curious though. Logic would suggest, that if the vaccines were so safe and effective, then the vaccinated individual shouldn't have any concern about the unvaccinated. If you're protected, then what's the problem?
In one respect, I find this totally understandable. After all, for the better part of two years, we have been bombarded with only one side of this story. And it doesn't seem to matter which media you choose. There certainly is another side to the story, and the magazine featured above did a very good job recently of covering that side. There are plenty of very qualified people around the world that are speaking out about their concerns regarding these shots, and I and many others are more than convinced that not getting the jab is the sensible choice. But we are now the outcasts in this society, and even though I can see the tide shifting ever so slightly, it appears that this Covid vaccine steam roller is just going to continue rolling over any narrative that doesn't fit. With mask mandates back in place, and vaccine passports just two days away, it appears that the agenda continues, full steam ahead. And now they're talking about 5 to 11 year olds as the next in line for the jab. This truly seems like madness to me.
But this is the crazy world we live in, here in late October of 2021. Aside from writing this blog today, in order to get this off of my chest, there is really nothing else that I can do to shift the debate, or to change people's minds. Besides, that's not for me to do anyway. People have to make up their own minds on a variety of matters on a daily basis, and this is just one more of those issues to make a decision on.
So fortunately, or unfortunately depending on your point of view, I will have to continue down this path. It has caused friction and separation with some, but at the same time there has been a upside with others.
The bottom line? In spite of it all, I am still here, able to spend another day on planet earth. Each day seems even more precious than the last one. And in this current world, that says a lot. If one takes the time to notice, there is always something marvelous to appreciate.
grateful for every breath,
Paul
The Thoughtful Wanderer
Thursday, October 21, 2021
THE THOUGHTFUL WANDERER TURNS 10 TODAY
POST # 475
Say what???
That's right, Eunice. It was ten years ago today, that this thing called "The Thoughtful Wanderer" began. At that time, you would have just been a young pup, and a fellow wanderer, navigating the streets of Mexico City, possibly wondering where your next meal would be coming from. Now, you live on easy street, here in Nanaimo, BC.
I, on the other hand, had just arrived in Lake Oswego, Oregon to begin another house sit, my second one since I had sold my sailboat. The place in Lake Oswego had been a referral from my previous location on Orcas Island, so it had been a very smooth transition from one location to the next.
I'm not exactly sure why I chose October 21, 2011 to begin this blog, but I am sure glad that I did start. It has been a wonderful way to recall all of the many amazing places, and even more amazing animals (which includes some human ones) that I have had the great good fortune to get to know over the past decade.
As I sit here now, that starting date feels like it was much longer ago. Time can be a bit funny in that regard.
Today, I find myself back at a place that I did a sit back in late 2011. Back then, I only had Myrtle the bonehead, but now, in addition to Eunice, there is also a furball named Apollo.
grateful for every breath,
Paul
The Thoughtful Wanderer
Thursday, October 14, 2021
WAS OCTOBER 12th MY FINAL FLIGHT ?
POST # 474*
I debated whether or not I should attach a "?" at the end of today's blog post title. After all, none of us really know what our future holds. So for that reason, there is a question mark. However, the more I think about it, the more that I feel that October 12th really was my last flight. From my point of view, it seems pretty straight forward. As of October 30th in Canada, no jab, "no flight for you." I don't have any plans to fly anywhere prior to that date, and I also have no plans of ever getting the jab, so unless the legislation changes, I guess I won't be flying anywhere after that date.
The owners arrived home on the 11th, and seeing as I had a ride to the airport that day (with the owner's father), I chose to take advantage of a free lift. Of course, that meant that I would be at the airport for more than 24 hours, but hey, it wouldn't be the first time. I found a good bench outside, and a semi-comfortable floor inside to nap upon, and the time went by faster than expected.
Thursday, October 7, 2021
FROM PART TIME TO FULL TIME
POST # 473
Onboard the Phillip Law
Having completed the sale of my sailboat a couple of days earlier, I met up with the new owners at the gate of the marina, to hand over the keys, and go over any other details that we hadn't covered earlier. In spite of the fact that I only received 20% of what I had purchased the boat for, six years earlier, I was happy that the transaction was now complete. The new owners were a couple of young brothers from Quebec, and they were keen to get onboard their new boat. It was now time for me to leave the marina and the sailboat that had been my home, and be on my way.
Why mention this history now? Well the date that I left the marina was October 1st, 2011. As of six days ago, I have been house/pet sitting full time now for an entire decade. That was the day that I shifted from being a part time sitter to a full time sitter.
I absolutely loved living on my sailboat, however during my final year at the marina, I worked out that I had probably spent only about two months out of the twelve, onboard. The remainder of the year was at a variety of locations around Vancouver doing exactly what I do now, that is, house/pet sitting. I could keep the boat, and continue to pay the monthly moorage fees, but it seemed like a waste of money, as I was hardly ever there. I had no idea at the time what it was going to be like to be intentionally homeless, but there was only one way to find out.
I was headed to Orcas Island in Washington State. This would be the very first house sit acquired through the house sitting service called Housecarers. If memory serves, I believe that it was for three weeks duration, and I had the pleasure of not only being in a wonderful location, but I had the company of Oscar and Felix the cats (you can view them on the right side of the page if you scroll down). It would be the start of a regular sit on Orcas over many subsequent years.
My house sit history goes all the way back to 1986. At the time, I was living in Los Angeles of all places, and working as a handy man at a college that my sister Rosie was attending. The President of the college, lived in a mansion of a house on Arbor street, just off of Orange Grove boulevard in Pasadena, very near the Wrigley mansion. Kathryn owned a Russian wolf hound named Shauna. I house sat for Kathryn on a couple of occasions, the last of which found me chasing Shauna down Orange Grove boulevard heading towards the Pasadena freeway. I spent a very stressed day and night driving around Pasadena, prior to having Shauna return home about 5am then next morning. Who knows what adventures she had been on during her time away, but I was very grateful to have her back home. Kathryn was arriving home later that same day. Perhaps I learned an early lesson in dog sitting all those years ago.
Fast forward to Dawson City in the Yukon. This is where my house/pet sitting really began to take off. As one can imagine, there are plenty of Dawsonites that love to head south during the winter months, and so the opportunities for me were numerous. Prior to moving from Dawson in 2004, I put together a folder of referrals from many of my clients, and this would prove to be a wise decision for my future house sit career.
I moved to Vancouver in late 2004. One day while on lunch break at Granville Island where I worked operating an Aquabus ferry, I came across an ad on the bulletin board, advertising for a cat sitter. Long story short, that became the first of many regular clients that I helped out during my time in Vancouver. At some point I stumbled across Housecarers which matched people like me, with people who were looking for a sitter. I actually disregarded the website at first, and forgot all about it. Somehow, months later, there it was again. I decided to join back in 2011, and I've been a member since that time. Occasionally I make a wise decision, and joining Housecarers certainly fits the bill.
This past year and a half or so, has been slim pickings to say the least, however, slowly but surely the house sit gigs are starting to appear again on the Housecarers website.
I do love this lifestyle, and I really can't imagine doing anything else for the rest of my life. The rewards are too numerous to mention. Not only do I have the opportunity to visit a variety of wonderful locations, but more important than the location, are the wonderful critters, that I have come to know and love along this journey. Plus, there are some very special people (they know who they are) that I have met along this journey.
I'm pretty darn sure that I won't get another decade under my belt, but if that were to happen, then I would be very happy indeed spending it doing just what I have been doing since October 1st, 2011.
grateful for every breath,
Paul
The Thoughtful Wanderer
Tuesday, September 28, 2021
DAILY OBSERVATIONS AND A NOTE ABOUT COVID
POST # 472
On any given day around here, there are plenty of things to observe, if one just takes the time to do so. In our busy, covid-distracted world, it's easy to miss out on some of the joys in life. No matter what the weather is, I make certain to go outside multiple times each and every day to enjoy being surrounded by nature. Like most people these days, I spend part of my waking hours in front of a computer screen. I don't own a smart phone, and have no plans on ever owning one, so at least that keeps my screen time low in comparison to most individuals. Aside from having a magnificent location here in the country, I have the three wonderful furballs to spend time with as well.
A couple of days ago, I came across this little miracle growing on the forest floor. The day before, it didn't exist , and as of today it is now history. A short life indeed.
One never knows what I will see on my daily bike ride, and this turkey was no exception. He seemed as surprised to see me as I was to see him.
Tuesday, September 21, 2021
CONTINUING TO ENJOY MY TIME HERE IN THE ONTARIO COUNTRYSIDE
POST # 471
WHERE ARE OUR TREATS?
I am occasionally asked whether or not I get lonely doing what I do these days. It's not something that I suffer from, and I think it's primarily because I have an active mind. My childhood curiosity has followed me all the way along, and that's a good thing. I also have the three furballs at this sit, to keep me company, so the days just continue to roll on by at a rapid rate of knots. All the more reason to appreciate the moments as much as is possible.
During one of those moments the other night, while out on my evening stroll, I came across this warty looking critter. It seemed to be perfectly comfortable with me stooping down to take its photo. One never knows quite what to expect as I roam around in the darkness.
Something that has been in my possession since I did a house sit at my friends Guy and Pauline's in Pleasantville New York, is this lacrosse ball. I happened to be out on my daily walk, and there it was, just lying in the gutter. For some crazy reason, it has been a companion of mine since that time. The other day I managed to catch a photo of it in mid-air. The crazy things we do to pass the time, but I get some enjoyment out of it.
So it was full moon last night, and tomorrow at 3:20pm EDT the autumnal equinox arrives. I've been keeping an eye on the various maple trees that are quite prevalent in this part of the country, and sure enough, they are beginning to let us all know that summer is now over, the days are getting shorter, and the maple trees will start to display some wonderful colours. Not having spent any time at all in eastern Canada in the autumn, I am very much looking forward to this maple tree show.
I was going to end today's post with that photo of the maple tree, but I couldn't resist making a comment about politicians, because yesterday in Canada, there was another federal election. I've stated my opinion on this blog on more than one occasion with regards to elections and politicians in particular. However, I think that the quote below by Mark Twain aligns perfectly with my thinking.